I?ve realized that many guys are very shy about sharing their sexual fantasies with their girlfriends. I don?t really know how to pull it out of them. I?m pretty open-minded and I can talk about anything to anyone but I feel restricted when I know that the person I?m talking to prefers to keep things to themselves.
In any relationship, sex can be an important part of the success of a relationship. This is because we?re making our partner responsible for satiating our needs in that area. So it is important to share fantasies that we feel they would be able to help us with.
I believe that we need to know our partner well and then just give it a try and open up to them. They can always refuse to take part in it, but it benefits us if it?s something that they actually agree to.