It’s obvious we can’t give as much as we get from a relationship or we can’t get as much as we give. As two adults sharing their lives, the enthusiasm will vary, even if only slightly or quite obviously. So how can you evaluate a relationship as being healthy or not? Many say that you need to ask yourself whether you are treated just as good as you treat your partner, but isn’t this one impossible?
On the other hand, some people are just unhappy regardless how great their relationship is, which means you cannot call a relationship healthy just by judging your own happiness. So what then?